Have you ever worried about not being desirable? Check out this video and gain more confidence. Do these study questions with friends or family:
-Why do you think people want to be desirable?
-People often believe lies about not being desirable because of some quality they have or do not have. What are some qualities that you might think, "This makes me or them undesirable?" (note: I am not talking about sin or character flaws here. I am talking about qualities: could be physical, personality, status, etc.)
Everyone has different tastes. I am sure that whatever quality came to mind someone out there will love you for it. Some people have no preference what someone's mouth looks like but they care about their hair. Others could care less about a person's hair, but they like a nice smile. There are people out there who do not care about that quality and will love you for all your other qualities OR they will love that quality about you. Do you really think that everyone in the world is going to find you undesirable because of that quality? OF COURSE NOT!! :)
- Why do you think God made us all with different tastes?
(1 answer: maybe so everyone is loved)
-What will you do next time your own thoughts or the enemy (Satan and Demons) tries to convince you that you are not desirable?
Consider speaking out loud to yourself that you are desirable and that there are people out there who will care about you. There are people out there who will appreciate these qualities or will at least not care about them. (Again, I am not talking about sin or poor character here.) You are desirable, and people see it - whether you realize it or not, but life is a lot better when you see it too!! :)
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